Furthermore, you need to understand that your intentions here don't matter, and marginalized people cannot realistically know what's in your heart. Whether you mean to or not, you're replicating a longstanding pattern of comfortable nimby racism that posits the problem is speaking and being angry about racism, because racism itself exists as a sort of constant. This attitude ultimately punishes folks victimized by racism, while providing a cover of silence for racists to operate. This is history