@scottjenson Just hearing about all this and then going to read the replies on DAIR itself has been so stressful for me. I can't imagine how tired and unhappy they must feel to always have to deal with this stuff. It sucks even worse to know that the Mastodon app is itself making the problem worse for them in a bunch of ways.
You're right though, my mind always goes to "what feature could fix this" first. Totally unhelpful here.