well-to-do folks don't HAVE TO spend their money on helping the less fortunate, as much as i'd encourage it
but you have to understand that publicly donating to a major political party that gets enormous sums of money from corporations is essentially just burning it and then acting like you did us all a favor
of course we're gonna feel bad when our needs struggle to be met meanwhile half of fedi is having a huge pointless bonfire with money that could've saved our asses and acting like they're actually solving literally anything. you seriously can't expect us to not be annoyed as fuck with that