@sapphire @0 @LouisConde @nugger @weaf In a more cohesive environment, the issue is one of framing. I help my family out for nothing, and they even expect me to help out for nothing. Are they taking advantage of me, or do I love them? Viewing everything transactionally only works in a cold vacuum of business.
The problem is that we're surrounded by those who are incapable of love, or that we ourselves are unable to love or be loved. Change who you associate with, and that comes back.