@beardalaxy People like that... I really think they must have done something fucked up or not done anything at all when they were a teen or young 20's, and that made them feel bitter about relationships, romantic or friendly, and feel the need to try to project and police everyone on that kind of thing. Maybe they can't make ANY friends.
Living on campus in uni at 30 really changed my perception of zoomers. The "fully developed brain at 25" shit can't be right. All my friends were 10 years younger than me and the smartest and most motivated people I've met. I think it'd be a bit demeaning for me to, at 30, look at those college age ADULTS and believe they can't think for themselves and make their own decisions when it comes to relationships or anything.