@lucy@netzsphaere.xyz @allison@hidamari.apartments @ciel@kokoro.garden @meso@netzsphaere.xyz i dont think autism is analogous to what germans are like. if it were “autism” germans would be like “idk how to be romantic” or “idk why one would do this”. they do know how and they do know why one would be, they just choose not to. things like saying cutesy stuff to your partner is just considered cringe way faster here than it is in english