@Eiswald @Jonaschuzzlewit @hidden This is great advice honestly. I know a guy who is possibly autistic and was raised by like his grandma or something, and he was similarly emotionally taxing but very kind and intelligent. I hung out with him a few times and just asked him questions about himself, so he'd open up a bit about what he was wanting in his life. Turns out he did want to fix some things but he didn't know where to start. I gave him some good personalized advice using the sandwich technique— compliment-criticism-compliment— so that he knew it was coming from a place of love/friendship rather than coming across as me being a dick. He's so much more chill and has seriously improved his life in the last decade.