@pernia no some of the people on those lgbt instances are surprisingly nice, it'd be fine for people to interact with them most of the time. Mostly people like wetdry.world that attract anarchocommunist types that are terrible

Mastosoc is a *big* loss because all the famous people are on the giant fucking node. Big nodes are the root of all evil.

Maintenance is sort of an actual problem, but I could help with that for now