I think men who are well groomed and virgins by choice should be able to reasonably expect a woman of similar caliber, and the same goes for all other varieties of man and woman

if my relationship ended (assuming I didn't kms) I would feel uncomfortable with a virgin but also uncomfortable with a slut and would try to find someone similar to me

Really through all things in a relationship you're looking for someone similar to you that you're willing to stick with and grow together