@AnimeTradCath @transgrammaractivist @MisterLister @Will2Power @deprecated_ii No you don't have to be that extreme to like get a girlfriend. This is just the level of extreme you would have to be to put yourself in the shoes of what it's like for an attractive girl. Like they are having 100s of solicitations from dudes a week and a lot of those dudes are cool, rich, and in good shape. Put on top of that the entire society and social conditioning saying it's ok to hook up with random people and expecting women to act any other way than they are doing is just completely absurd. It's not a failure on their part its a failure of our entire culture. You really shouldn't judge women for being whores when literally the entire civilization is telling them being a whore is high status and cool.