@privateger Then don't produce it.
I can't really think of a way to put it that's not combative, at least over text. I tell clients, friends, family, your only solution is to use social media with the understanding that what you post is public, and that there's no such thing as delete.
Maybe if someone starts fedi search engine, and doesn't back down the second they get harassed, people will adjust their behavior for the environment instead of demanding the environment be sterilized for them.