@mint @pomstan Thanks for tagging me. These things don't live inside my head so it's not something I think about a lot. First of all we have like three active users (plus me) and three others who come by once a month to drop a dank meme and refusing to elaborate. All users are expected to self-moderate. This is my third instance and I created it specifically to further desensitize myself to people's rancid opinions and behavior. I have one account in my personal block list.
I switched to akkoma at some point because people were saying it would offer increased performance or something I dunno. Maybe it did. Would switch back if I could. Mainly I miss the bot that reports blocks but it doesn't matter. If you judge someone for using akkoma then you are no better than the people who block instances just for running pleroma.
I am sorry if a relay is pulling posts you don't want to see. I don't know how relays work. In fact I didn't even know we had a relay.
Anyway we can always ask @Tadano what he thinks about this instance. I would love to know.