@jimmy_insane @Mr_Fuckers Because false and worldly wisdom does not lead to goodness, happiness, or a well-ordered and moral society, and false and worldly wisdom does not have any bearing on the truth or true morality. Turn to God and do not add to His moral laws. He defines what an adult man is and what one enjoys is not apart of that.

"This is not the wisdom that comes down from above, but is earthly, unspiritual, demonic." (James 3:15)

"If with Christ you died to the elemental spirits of the world, why, as if you were still alive in the world, do you submit to regulations--
'Do not handle, Do not taste, Do not touch'
(referring to things that all perish as they are used)-- according to human precepts and teachings?
These have indeed an appearance of wisdom in promoting self-made religion and asceticism and severity to the body, but they are of no value in stopping the indulgence of the flesh." (Colossians 2:20-23)

"Then David said to Solomon his son, 'Be strong and courageous and do it. Do not be afraid and do not be dismayed, for the LORD God, even my God, is with you. He will not leave you or forsake you, until all the work for the service of the house of the LORD is finished.'" (1 Chronicles 28:20) That is a very basic definition of adult manhood is being physically and spiritually strong, being gorgeous against the devil, the world, and sin, and being rooted firmly in the Lord, His Son Jesus Christ and the Gospel of Christ, and God's Law-Word. Do not add to His definition (Proverbs 30:6).

You are not a believer in Christ, so you will not understand these things until you become one. Turn from your sins and turn to Jesus Christ.