@sun
I feel you.
I have no room to give advice, but my experiences have taught me that a relationship comes second to just meeting and getting to know people.
Not just women, just people in general.
Hang out, do things, spend time in meatspace where people are, talk to everyone, be the person you are when you're alone and someone will want to hang out with you.
At some point one of them will be a single and respectable woman you can ask out for a coffee, just to gauge interest.