All I was trying to get at originally is that it's not good for men to be desiring women much older than them, because the consequences of having an older woman don't just stop at "no eggs", when relationships are considered in the terms of our purpose: getting married and raising a healthy family.

An older woman has other men to compare a younger man to, thereby is much more difficult to please in general, but besides that:

An older woman that is domineering (dommy mommy) by her nature ends up being very difficult and it's an unnatural power inversion that ends in disaster. She's much more likely to be a malicious gaslighting manipulator that preys on young men with mommy issues, for their own personal gratification.

If a man wants a dommy mommy (he doesn't ACTUALLY want one, as per the consequences above) he can have his wife play with him for a bit in whatever way he wants, and he may find that it was silly to begin with because having a good wife is better than a having a person around for the sole purpose of fulfilling a vain fetish.

There is so much degenerate danger in chasing a "type" of women based on a fetish rather than the beauty of finding a good woman and then learning about each other and having fun in an intimate way, Songs of Solomon style.

That's what I had meant by the "dommy mommy fetish needs to end" - but I was tired last night.