@BigBoss_Luffy

The biggest treasure of being single and atomized, is that you can see the world as it really is. And, confront lies, and replace them with unpopular truth.

What I have often seen, is a person start to see through a lie, or realize a truth. But, they cast if far away from them, when they realize it would damage their relationships, with marriage, or church family, or community.

The more, disconnected you are, the more easily you can walk with God.

> and can focus their energy and attention to the Church

I'd be very wary of anyone that teaches to direct your energy to any church. They devour peoples time, money, and energy. Often giving nothing in return.

I've found God requires, neither dedication, nor money, nor even time, to use you for His purposes. Jesus' ministry is a good example of this.

Where ever people are gathering money to do something for God, God is almost certainly not involved.