@Mikie1600 I think what's prevalent is the shame of "not planing to work if you could" ; lot of people internal value is about how much they're "hard at it" and "how much they gain" in the mainstream population.
If you don't you're "wasting your life", "being a leech", "worthless", "stupid", "lazy", etc.
I only recently found it in me to talk about my entourage about how chill my days were and how little I make. I used for a long time my "startup" front as a way to hide it out of shame tbh x)