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- Embed this notice@ThePoastmasterGeneral @zeke @Starprophet1 @DW2 @Punished_Potatus @TrevorGoodchild @sickburnbro There was a really good discussion on this back in Heartiste's Comment Section, which at the time was the most glorious place on the entire internet.
Women feel low-level emotions at all times, very broadly, but there's no depth to their emotions. If they really want to "feel" a strong emotion, it must be by empathetically relating to another person who is feeling that emotion.
So, while they may be "mad", it's just a low-level on-the-surface emotion. They can flip-flop to another emotion with a moment's notice. "I'm really angry with you OH LOOK HOW CUTE THAT SMILING BABY IS I'm really happy now."
Very often, when they're picking fights with their Man, there are two things happening: a desire to feel the true depth of an emotion, and a total inability to recognize that Men and women are fundamentally different. A Man doesn't flip-flop between emotions. Most of the time, a Man will ignore petty little irrelevancies to maintain state-control. Because experiencing an individual emotion is a deeper event for a Man; his woman cannot comprehend this, which is why picking yet-another fight for her is just passing the time, while for him it's an event.
She want's to really feel that emotion, but she can't do it without feeling it through him. She also wants that emotion to turn-off the moment she's done, which he can't do. Her vapid, mild emotions can jump from feeling to feeling. His deep, experiential emotions cannot be simply turned off.
(this is a major subject and I'm already tl;dr, so I'm done here)