@s2208 @c @EmmaFaber Sound advice.

There are men who will marry women with a moderate body count as long as she possesses the other qualities he wants AND provided her experience *taught* her more than it *wrecked* her.

Those men come with their own less than ideal histories and trade-offs and will RIGHTFULLY expect to be afforded the same grace that is expected of them.

If a lady wants a man to simply absorb all of her burdens without redistributing any of his to her... she better make hers as small and light as possible!