do you know how annoying it is when everyones like "oh you're probably trans because your mum wanted a girl and dressed you up as one and let you have really long hair when you were little or some obvious shit like that" and you're like, ok yes of course that did happen but it doesnt really count because she didnt remember doing any of that when i came out and denied it for like two years and now we're back on level pegging where shes like yeah thats true.