here's some more harsh truth for you. men are living live on hardmode.
prewall-females (high sexual-market-value..younger than 35) nowadays exclude ~80% based on height and income alone.
https://mastodon.satoshishop.de/@mk/111772348003809269
physical fitness is one of the easier checkboxes to level up. if you can't even do that, you're going to have a hard time finding a good woman.