@dansup Yes, and I disagree with both. The Fediverse is opt-out by default and by design. That's its whole point and raison d'être.
People who think otherwise (see the whole drama with the BlueSky bridge the other day) should maybe do some soul-searching and ask themselves why they're here.
Oh well...
You seem like a great guy, you're building a great platform. It just baffles me that you seem to not want to be discovered by the people who are the most likely to use it. 🤷♂️