@Maxine @eris @astronema @lydiaposting this sorta thing is probably why so many transfems are poly. there's a material incentive to have to rely on each other to survive because otherwise it's like, what else are you gonna do other than get very lucky (or come from money) or rely on a cis chaser?

though in practice this tends to just result in trauma bonding because everyone is mentally ill and desperate and not really conscious of all these things