@eris @astronema all the transfems I know irl are white (because this city's demographics are cursed) and all of us are broke as fuck. in my case, I don't even feel comfortable with asking people for money at all because of exactly these bullshit narratives being leveraged against transfems that we somehow have it better than other queers. it becomes a question of the optics for even daring to ask for help from anyone, especially knowing that literally everyone in my circles irl and online is broke as fuck