but your problem is the reverse. your server is cool but the biggest fedi server is limiting their own users' access to your individual account. they'd do that wherever it was hosted. ultimately we need to break up MS, but having it as a default server is so useful right now. we really just need a new norm for moderation.
but what the mob did to you re Israel criticism, I'd probably never convince people here not to try to censor clearly conservative opinions.