@anildash what we disagree on is the definition of "community". Many people I've talked to about this don't give a fuck about community. They care about themselves. And they didn't know anything about what the norms were. They just hate bluesky. You're projecting the norms of your own circles onto a much wider group of people.
Also there is a strong argument to be made that the actual community norms are to federate with everybody. Because that's what happens in almost all cases today.