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@hakan_geijer @CedarTea

Picture the regular Friday night drinks crew at the pub.

You're all good mates, and you don't *reaaaally* pay too much attention to whose round it is, and whether on any given Friday it's all worked out evenly.

But it becomes noticeable after a while if someone isn't chipping in.

Ideally - the opening statement is to make sure they're okay - are they having money troubles, etc? Can we help?

But eventually - if they're genuinely just freeloading - they become a little uncomfortable, they know they're being talked about it. A few pointed remarks here and there.

Little pushes to get them back on track, before more drastic measures (exclusion) are taken.

That kind of thing.