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Not that I would (abusively) treat someone badly or manipulate them to show them how much "better" they have it than if they were in an (abusive) relationship

but like...should someone be aware of that? or prepared to think carefully about how someone might abuse their trust?

How would I raise a femme child who likes straight men, knowing that they're dangerous and knowing that teaching them creates the hypervigilance I'd prefer they didn't have to experience