Kind of a philosophical question right? I think generally the idea of virginity is kind of heteronormative and patriarchal. Like if you think about what constitutes virginity in a queer context, it becomes a lot harder to justify its existence. But with my purely feels-no-thoughts hat on, I do kind of feel that way. Like there will be a clear delineation for me where I will be able to experience sex “for the first time” in a body that I’m actually comfortable in and that’s fun to think about