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I’m not sure there’s a “general orthodoxy” but as far as common tropes, I cringe really hard at suggestion that someone is only their gender once they come out or start HRT. Like the Dylan Mulvaney “n days of being a girl” thing I think is ultimately harmful to less privileged trans folks and can even come across as transmedicalist. On the flip side I will absolutely die on the hill that trans women on HRT are biologically women and have transitioned their sex, not just their gender presentation