@grillchen @aZa1905 @methyltheobromine
fully agreed.

often "pickup artists" will advise against being too agreeable and assuming a natural female bottom-ness. however, in my experience it's much worse to artificially be disagreeable or try to be an alpha when it's not your genuine character. such disingenuous behavior will get you nowhere with girls you actually wanna date.

you won't get "friend zoned" for being too friendly. if you get into that zone, there's no interest from her in the first place.