I do not advertise my own instances because they are purposed for specifics such as property taxes, 3D printing and such. I like it when only people who are using them visit. I pay for the VPS out of pocket, I install, upgrade, back them up by hand, they use my own BIND stack - I could not afford to many users.

I am not a fan of large nodes with people too arrogant and ignorant to give a shit about my purpose. The Fedi is full of people who think Free Speech = being insufferable.