knowing when someone is being sincere and blocked by the cistem and when they're being a sinister enforcer of the cistem is honestly much harder than it might sound.
you will get a feel for these vibes in time, but the only way to get there is to try and fail. it's going to hurt. keep going. that discomfort is growing pain of your soul expanding.
be courageous. be braver than you've ever been. run further than you've ever run.
it will be worth it every time.