as you begin to recognize and grok trans culture, you will understand yourself better. it will help with recognizing where you have internalized transphobia and cisnormativity.
it won't undo the conditioning, but knowing there's a trap is the first step in evading it. 🪤❤️
i am dead serious about this: until you realize how unique and special it is to be trans, you are still under cis cultural conditioning.
cis people are a dime a dozen. trans people are rare and magical.