next: immersion in trans culture
it's so important to understand: trans culture IS culture. for your whole life you have been swimming in cis culture. it is so omnipresent that it's hard to even recognize it.
the only way to begin to undo this is to immerse yourself in trans culture. surround yourself with transness. trans friends, trans authors, trans filmmakers, trans podcasts.
pause your intake of cis culture for at least 6 months.