@ryanc Love the ending 😂
Seriously though, once I came out as non-binary it really hit me how bad the labels are. People had questions and all I could give them were rants.
Personally I think we should focus on "what you like" rather than “what you are” as a starting point, and the “philia" words work best for that.
E.g.
Androphilia: into dudes
Gynophilia: into dudettes
Ceterophilia: into etcetera
The last one is the most controversial but I'm always hoping to make it happen anyway 🤷🏻♀️