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For autistic people... all relationships are inherently transactional.

We are required by others to provide value to the relationship to offset their discomfort. Unless we can perfectly conform to their idea of how we should be and are able to mask away every part of us that doesn't align with that.

To be autistic to forever be a lone wolf. Never able to truly integrate into groups and always having a wall between you and everyone else.

You can never feel secure in a relationship because you're always terrified of not being seen as 'worth it' of not being enough anymore.