@synapsid From studies and the way we live, it seems like some twenty thousand, and more, years ago we developed the trait of men investing in the raising of children, as it seems that the species was almost dying out and that saved it from going poof.
Think of how many other large mammals have the males invest in the raising of children like humans do.

It's not women who control Men's sexuality, women simply control the sex. It's men that once they control it that they do incredible things that no woman could even think to do.