@RickiTarr I don't think being born lacking empathy is an accurate description of any psychological diagnosis, and is based on misunderstandings of personality disorders. I think it's also important when talking about these things to be careful of not reinforcing ableist stereotypes about people with Antisocial Personality Disorder. I would suggest anyone with questions on that topic to look it up (while also doing a critical reading of the research through a disability justice lens, as the field of psychology can be very ableist as well). I'm far from an expert in either of those areas, though, so I'll leave it at that.
I think people are raised to believe that empathy is weakness all the time, and it's part of social conditioning that must be overcome.