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when i was first coming out, there was Scout who had come out a few years prior and i remember very early on reading them saying they had no more time for trans babies after one had come up to them in a shop to talk. I remember them talking about how it was neverending, for every one there is another four and then sixteen in a never ending flood so they were just done.

That comes back to me a lot at times as a statement. I didnt agree with it, i still dont. But i have found i definitely have no sympathy or time to give trans people who are in that void of "im not going to transition because its horrible and this is a curse and id rather do anything but be trans".

My response to that now is always a sharp response. Because there are parts i feel Scout was right, there is that never ending flood of trans people coming out who need help, there is no time to be bothering with ones who are playing the weird reverse denial headgame of "i dont want to and im going to be abusive to everyone but im still going to post aobut it continually because i need someone to save me and convince me". And im just like, no, absolutely not, theres continual trans babies coming out of the woodwork who are able to say they need help, you are not special and i dont care if you dont transition and continue to have a miserable life in the closet, i dont know who you are, you're a blip in an endless flood. If you're expecting everyone to play your game of reverse pushing you to transition, just no, no one has that energy.