@eris @eri oh I'm a tall bitch (5'11"), so I'm not likely to blend much anyway. so I like to wear platform shoes (1" or so) and lean into it (also they are my cute shoes and I love them so much)

I'm also kinda discouraged because at my age I kinda assumed even if I do awesome with voice training it'll still be incredibly clockable (that said, im giving cis ppl too much credit on what they'd notice, the daft little dullards)