@eri @eris

my experiences so far:

clothes alone confused people and generally got me to not be gendered at all (I think polite people are worried about getting it wrong and jerks are just mad at this point)

accessories can help, especially things like hair clips and purses that are fairly concretely feminine coded

breasts make a big difference, I think because it signals to polite people more strongly that I want to be coded female (I wore breast forms out yesterday for the first time since mine are still tiny)