@lisamelton @Terra Just want to add on to this. There are so many quiet nights alone when a voice creeps in saying "You're not fooling anyone. It's so much work to keep up this presentation, and you're not even on HRT. Just stop trying and let people call you a man. It's what they want to do anyway."
But I know those thoughts can't carry my emotional truth, because *it hurts when I hear them*.