nobody is saying they have to stop existing, or can't have another account on a fedi blocked server. just on servers that the admin doesn't want to be fedi blocked, don't tag people with shit. be considerate of what they might not want to see. like how we censor ourselves in different situations in real life. I'm fine with them saying nasty shit in their own posts or with people they know are fine with it on any server. they don't have to hide who they are etc.