@wjmaggos @p @amerika @Moon so you're asking a hypothetical about a real life situation most people have encountered more than once?
Were you raised in an isolated research pod?
Oscar Wilde observed that "man is least himself when he talks in his own person. Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth."
The truth may be that the person in the mask is a dickhead with all the same rights, needs, and choices you have.
Your being bothered by that is no obligation of the asshole's.