@LisbonMuse @tangleofsnakes Totally...and the sexuality thing with young men...they grew up porn-soaked and have a really warped view of what sex and intimacy is. That's not to say older men can't be as well, but the younger boys never knew any different, having been born in the age of easily-accessible online porn.

They say the average age today that boys are exposed to porn is 7-12. That is so fucking young.

Before that, you had to be 18 and had to go in-person to a shop and buy a magazine or go to a seedy little shop with a little dark room in the back to view porn. But online porn today is everywhere and it's basically sex education for boys. And they see the horrible "gonzo porn" at such a young age...like the gang rape porn and the super violent stuff etc and they think that's what sex is. "Normal" sex without all the gimmicks and violence is shamed as "vanilla" these days. I.e. not exciting...boring.

Once a guy I was talking to on a dating app who was in his late 20s asked me if I like hand cuffs and to be choked...like are you fucking kidding me?? That was the end of that. Never date a porn user, ladies. They are fucked up beyond repair.