@inthehands i like this thread.
There is a continuum from those who see only tragedy in war & inherent good/worth in all people to those who believe might is right and can lead to good outcomes. Mutually beneficial vs zero-sum. Amygdala dominant vs frontal lobe dominant reasoning.
I don't think that people's position on the spectrum is fixed. Environmental factors like trauma, grief, betrayal - or propaganda (which mimics these) move people strongly - a process we know as radicalisation