@wjmaggos @p @Moon so this quickly becomes a fundamental philosophical question:
Do we, or do we not want governance?
Fedi has governance is built in at the user and administrative levels. What you are pushing at is something beyond this and your justification is, "but if we don't, people will be people."
If pristine threads are important, defederate your server, but it's fairly authoritarian to suggest that the rest of the world needs to toe your line.