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Like, this isn't a general need to make everyone believe what I believe the truth is, or else myself uncritically accept what everyone else believes the truth is, in order to be able to get along with people. In general I don't need my perceptions of reality and everyone else is to be perfectly aligned in order to be able to coexist and work together. But I *do* need to come to some mutual understanding with you when what you are saying specifically pertains to me and is about me and so we can't just agree to disagree because then you'll just keep accusing me of things that I think are false and we won't be able to get along. And I've been accused of having a "colonizer brain" for this, but I don't see it.