Being woke, being a Social Justice Warrior, being a "good person" is suffering beyond description, to conform to the perfect social creature you are not.

Society is placing unrealistic demands on you, and instead of rejecting it you are conforming. You are NOT changing society for the better - you are changing yourself for the worse.

Jesus taught you, told you to be aware of the money changers and the tax collectors. Their activities (not their person) enraged him. Likewise, it is not the discussion that changes society - it is the deceptive and criminal ACTIONS. Nobody is getting injured or die due to a debate. People get injured or die because de-criminalizing drug use, tolerating the ransacking of homes and businesses, and releasing illegals and criminals - who have little to none to lose - onto the streets.